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About sharing image copyrightGetty Images Most people spend part of every day surrounded by strangers, whether on their daily commute, sitting in a park or cafe, or visiting the supermarket. Yet many of us remain in self-imposed isolation, believing uow reaching out to a stranger would make you both feel uncomfortable. These beliefs may be unwarranted. In fact, our research suggests we may often underestimate the positive impact of connecting with others for both our own and others' wellbeing. For example, having a conversation with a stranger on your way to work may leave you both feeling happier than you would think.

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Feeling isolated and lonely, in contrast, is a stress factor that poses a health risk comparable to smoking and obesity. These brief connections with strangers are not likely to turn a life of misery into one of bliss.

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Of course, nobody appreciates unwanted attention. In fact, research suggests that we consistently underestimate how much a new person likes us following an initial conversation. These beliefs may be unwarranted.

Essentially, your personality may shape your expectations more than your experiences do. Thinking others aren't interested in talking, or won't like you, are the very things that will keep you from making contact. Yet many of us remain in self-imposed isolation, believing that reaching out to a stranger would make you both feel uncomfortable.

Most thought that talking would lead to the least pleasant commute.

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In fact, several experiments indicate both extroverts and introverts are happier when they are asked to behave in an extroverted manner. For example, having a conversation with a stranger on your way to work may leave you both feeling happier than you would think. In fact, research suggests that we consistently underestimate how much a new person likes us following an initial conversation.

Strangers sit next to each other on park benches staring at their phones, walk down city streets without smiling or saying "hello" to anyone. Strangers sit next to each other on park benches staring at their phones, walk down city streets without smiling or saying "hello" to anyone.

Thinking others aren't interested in Totally free dating sites, or won't like you, are the very things that will keep you from making contact. In fact, several experiments indicate both extroverts and introverts are happier when they are asked to behave in an extroverted manner.

If you think that talking to a stranger is likely to be unpleasant, you'll never try and so never discover that your expectations might be wrong. Humans are inherently social animals, who are made happier and healthier when connected to others.

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Having positive social relationships has been put forward as a key ingredient for happinessmore ificant even than how much we earn. Most thought that talking would lead to the least pleasant commute. This can keep us mistakenly isolated and disconnected from others. These brief connections with strangers are not likely to turn a wity of misery into one of bliss. The inner lives of strangers Separate experiments on buses and in taxis yielded similar ; individuals found connecting with strangers was surprisingly pleasant.

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This may help to explain why cities seem so crowded with highly social people who are actively trying to ignore each other. Yet every participant in our experiment who actually tried to talk to a stranger found the person sitting next to them was happy to chat.

Peopke personality may not have a big effect on your experience of connecting with others, it may affect your expectations, with introverts underestimating the positive consequences of interaction. Of course, nobody appreciates unwanted attention. However, they can change unpleasant moments - like the grind of a daily commute - into something more pleasant.

We’re social beings. even uncomfortable conversations are good for our wellbeing.

The positive impact even seems to spread to the person you talk to. But simply reaching out to a fellow human being to say hello may be better received than people realise.

Feeling isolated and lonely, in contrast, is a stress factor that poses a health risk comparable to smoking and obesity. This may help to explain why cities seem so crowded with highly social people who are actively trying to ignore each other. Initiatives include: Virgin Trains deating all coach Cs on its west coast services as the "chat coach" Arriva distributing "conversation starter" cards via its national bus network, and encouraging passengers to "share a smile" Encouraging people from different backgrounds to mix on Translink Northern Ireland's Glider service connecting East and West Belfast Self-fulfilling expectations You might imagine that only outgoing people would pwople more from connecting with wihh.

About sharing image copyrightGetty Images Most people spend part of every day surrounded by strangers, whether on their daily commute, sitting in a park or cafe, or visiting the supermarket. If you think that talking to a stranger is likely to be unpleasant, you'll never try and so never discover that your expectations might be wrong.

Having positive social relationships has been put forward as a key ingredient for happinessmore ificant even than how much we earn. However, they can change unpleasant moments - like the grind of a daily commute - into something more pleasant.

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We asked bus and train commuters in Chicago how they would feel about striking up a conversation on their morning commute, compared to sitting in solitude or doing whatever they normally do. In another experiment conducted in a waiting room, we found that not only did the people we encouraged to talk have a more pleasant experience, but so did the person they were asked to talk to. We found that commuters tend to be happier when they talk to a stranger, regardless of how extroverted they perceived themselves to be.

Few start a conversation with a stranger, but most seem happy to talk if you reach out with good intentions.

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But simply reaching out to a fellow human being to say hello may be better received than people realise. Yet many of us remain in self-imposed isolation, believing that reaching out to a stranger would make you both feel uncomfortable. Humans are inherently social animals, who are made happier and healthier when connected to others. He will offer early impressions of the on Friday as part of Crossing Divides On the Move, a day when the BBC - working with transport companies - is encouraging adults to chat to fellow passengers.